Too Many Differences
The challenges of joining the royal family have become clear to Meghan Markle. During a recent interview, she acknowledged that it is a difficult path. This has raised questions about Prince Harry's decision to marry her.
Megan talked to her best friend Lizzie Cundy about the time leading up to the first time she and Harry met. She told Lizzie that Harry was a great person!
She had no idea that being in a relationship with royalty would not be like what it seemed. Although they often appear cheerful in public, Harry's irritation was beginning to become more obvious.
Disrespecting Royal Protocol
One of the latest signs that Harry and Meghan had blundered was at the Trooping of the Color occasion.
When the royal family was anticipated to look ahead and sing the national hymn, Meghan swiveled to converse with Harry, who quickly told her to return to the proper direction. An insider reported that eventually she complied, and it appeared as if she was on the brink of tears.
What Will They Do With Archie?
One of the primary causes of Meghan Markle's regret of marrying Prince Harry could be the attitude held by the royal family towards their infant son, Archie. People were puzzled why Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip did not attend the ceremony for the newborn.
Despite the fact that Meghan may be concerned, she should be comforted to learn that the Queen wasn't present at Prince Louis' baptism last year. Furthermore, Meghan and Harry may have difficulty instilling the same standards in Archie and any progeny they have.
So Many Sacrifices
The amount of changes Meghan Markle had to make for the sake of the royal family makes it seem as if it wasn't worth marrying Prince Harry in the end.
The ex-performer has been forced to surrender some of the most insignificant things in order to be accepted. No longer are there opportunities for her to take pictures of herself and share them on the internet. Meghan is unable to cross her legs when she sits down or get an attractive manicure.
Dealing With His Exes
Despite tying the knot with one of the most exclusive, protected families on the planet, Meghan still can't stop her husband from talking to his former flames. Throughout the whole Trooping the Color incident, the press took pictures of ex Chelsy Davy arriving in London, reportedly keeping an eye on Harry during this difficult moment in his life.
Harry was very eager to tie the knot with Chelsy before she had a change of heart. After they split, they stayed friends. Royal reporter Phil Dampier is certain of this.
He Had One Last Phone Call With Her
Recently, it was uncovered that Prince Harry had a tremendous, sorrowful phone conversation with his past love, Chelsy Davy, before he got married to Meghan Markle. A source revealed to royal author Katie Nicholl that it was their last chat, a farewell dialogue in which they both accepted that Harry was moving on.
Chelsy was overwhelmed by the situation, she was crying and almost did not attend the wedding. Eventually, she went and promised Harry she would not try and enter without an invitation.
Marrying The Royal Family
It is said that when you join yourself to someone in marriage, you also bring their family into your life. Unfortunately, Meghan Markle is getting a firsthand experience of this. She has had difficulty pleasing various family members and has had a few arguments.
The ex-performer is said to have made Kate Middleton cry because she urged her to track down the most excellent bridesmaid dress for the ceremony. Furthermore, Prince William cautioned his sibling not to speed into any association, inquiring if he was absolutely sure about Meghan.
Shattered Dreams
Marrying into the imperial family necessitated that Meghan Markle had to put away numerous of her objectives. And she's not the initial individual who has been obliged to do that.
Prior to uniting with Prince William, Kate Middleton was enthusiastic about being a photographer and web designer, however she had to give up those interests. Joining Prince Harry meant Meghan had to reconsider her chances of achieving her ambitions - her selections are now very restricted...
She's Changed Him
It appears that Meghan may have been remorseful for getting married to Prince Harry due to her excessive attempts to modify his behavior. Duncan Larcombe, who has followed the royal family issues in The Sun for a long time, proposed that Meghan Markle could have had a strong effect on Harry's drastic change of attitude in royal circles.
The members of Harry's team have always admired him, but Duncan stated that the prince and his companion are difficult to handle. The author also commented that Harry has become irritable and distant.
Actresses Don't Marry Royals
Meghan Markle was obligated to give up her performing career to wed Prince Harry, and that alone is a motive why she shouldn't have done it! The Duchess of Sussex is a skilled actor, who had a major part in the prominent law series Suits.
Sophie Rhys-Jones quit her job as an actor when she wed Prince Edward two decades ago. During their engagement, Prince Phillip apparently commented to Prince Harry: "Getting involved with actresses is one thing, but marrying them is another thing altogether." That was quite a statement!
Personality Clash?
Meghan Markle may have thought twice about getting married to Prince Harry because of their contrasting characters. Harry is not as strict with royal rules as Meghan, and is seen as more rebellious than the other royals. On the other hand, Meghan is more formal and appears to be more restrained with her feelings.
Meghan is a very cheerful and sociable person, which may not be the best match for Prince Harry or the rest of the royal family.
History Repeating Itself?
If Meghan had examined the past, she probably would not have tied the knot with Prince Harry. Other ladies who married into the royal family in the past did not have a successful experience, including Harry's mom, Princess Diana who is no longer with us.
When Diana was tied to Prince Charles, she supposedly became disheartened and even experienced an eating disorder. On the other hand, Grace Kelly wed into the Monegasque royal family, and her associates from the royal family were not particularly kind to her.
Losing Their Friends
It appears that both Meghan and Harry may have misgivings about getting married now that their groups of acquaintances have faded away. Harry has difficulty remaining connected to pals like Astrid Harbord and Tom Inskip.
Everything has changed for Meghan since she got involved with Harry. A confidante has declared that she has been slowly distancing herself from Harry's circle of friends. At the same time, some of her own buddies have apparently been cut off by her. Lizzie Cundy, a celebrity, has revealed that Meghan completely vanished on her right after her and Harry's relationship intensified.
My Way Or The High Way
Meghan Markle may feel upset about tying the knot with Prince Harry because she can't wholly be herself. Nevertheless, the ex-actress is still trying to keep her own style as much as possible. This is especially evident in her clothing choices.
At different times, people who know a lot about royalty have said something about Meghan wearing dresses without sleeves in public. It is not known whether women of the royal family must always put on special stockings for public events. However, Meghan has been seen without wearing tights quite often.
Trying Way Too Hard?
It is probable that if Meghan had wed someone who was not as well-known, she would not have had to strive so intensely to blend in. Nick Ede, a public relations specialist, believes that Meghan has set herself an unattainable goal.
This person has just joined the Royal Family and is working four times as hard as when they were studying for the Suits script, according to the speaker. They have put themselves in a tough position.
Weird Obsession
Meghan Markle has asserted that she had limited knowledge of the royal family prior to tying the knot with Prince Harry, yet some acquaintances disagree. For instance, Ninaki Priddy, a friend from her childhood, claimed that Meghan was always unusually captivated by the Queen and her circle.
She remarked that it seemed as though Meghan had been organizing this since she was a child, and that everything was playing out exactly as she had wished. Additionally, she commented that Harry had been taken in by Meghan's manipulations. She also mentioned that Meghan had always wanted to be well-known and relished being in the limelight.
Public Haters
Meghan Markle has been exposed to the evaluation of not only her royal companions, but also the loathing of the British population and beyond. Individuals from the internet world have sent a bunch of hateful messages and postings on social media.
Kensington Palace representatives made the following statement in reply: "There are parts which have been kept away from the public's view - the nightly court hearings to stop unfounded stories from being printed...the endless pestering of nearly everyone she knows, including colleagues, family, and friends.
Breaking Up The Bros
It is widely known that Prince Harry and William have had a strong bond for a long time. But since Harry wed Meghan Markle, it appears that the relationship between the two pairs has become strained.
Meghan has supposedly asked Harry to accept that they should be independent, which was evident when Sussex parted from The Royal Foundation, which was originally created by the two brothers. Since they left Kensington Palace, it seems that something has gone wrong between them.
Is There A Cultural Divide?
It is obvious that Meghan and Harry have different cultural backgrounds, and this could mean that they may not be compatible. When it was reported that Harry was seeing someone from a different country, the people of Britain thought it was very strange.
An individual who marries into the Royal family will face a difficult task to adjust, but Meghan Markle's past experience appears to be an even more difficult challenge.
She Wanted To Marry "A Famous British Guy"
No doubt, Meghan Markle ought to have taken the time to think through why she chose to wed Prince Harry. If fame and nationality were her only motives, then that is likely not a strong enough reason.
TV personality Lizzie Cundy reported that Meghan requested her to introduce her to a well-known British male. Cundy wrote in her autobiography, " [Markle] expressed, 'Are you familiar with any famous people? I'm single and I'm really smitten with English guys.'
What Happened To My Perks?
Meghan Markle entered her union with Harry believing she would receive an abundance of advantages, like fancy abodes and royal gems. Though there is a certain degree of accuracy to this, Meghan likely should have had more modest expectations, particularly after the Queen apparently hindered her from accessing the Royal Collection.
Gavin Gray asserted that Meghan desired a certain necklace and Harry remarked that she should have it. Nonetheless, the Queen countered, saying she should not.
Accepting Each Other's Families
While Meghan Markle is having difficulty gaining acceptance from her royal relatives, her marriage to Prince Harry has also caused a rift between her and her own family.
Since Meghan told the world she was going to wed Harry, her half-sister Samantha has been trashing her in both private and public. She also isn't on good terms with her half-brother. Marrying Harry is making her more distant from her family, who are from a completely different lifestyle.
Even The Queen Is Bending The Rules For Her
After getting married to Prince Harry, Meghan appears to be asserting her power over several royal figures, even the Queen. Elizabeth II has already been accommodating to the Duchess of Sussex, as she was allowed to attend the holiday gathering before their wedding.
Certainly, the Queen gave her approval for Harry to wed a divorced individual in a house of worship, the primary instance of its kind in the royal family's past.
Sharing Their Struggles
Recently, Harry and Meghan have voiced their difficulties in managing their marriage and obligations as part of the royal family. In the documentary Harry and Meghan: An African Journey, the two shared their feelings and concerns, which caused some concern among other members of the royal family.
Since its release, the documentary has been aired in Australia, Africa, and Europe. A lot of discussion has been had about the emotional and mental effects that living a royal life has had on them, and Meghan especially has been very vocal about it.
I'm Not Fine
One of the most talked about aspects of the documentary that has been discussed by the public is the remarks made by Meghan Markle concerning the difficulty of being a mother, a new spouse and a royal family member in such a limited time.
She implied that the royals have not been benevolent towards her. "It's a hefty burden as a female," she declared. "I appreciate you inquiring, since few people have checked if I'm alright. But it's an actual thing that I'm experiencing in the background.
New Rumored Romances
It is possible that something is creating a rift between Meghan and Harry, which could be linked to the potential romances they had prior to getting together. It has been said that the Duchess of Sussex mentioned that the retired soccer player Ashley Cole attempted to date her just before she encountered Harry.
Cole's brother, Matty Cole, who is a journalist, has rejected the gossip. "It is not true; it is entirely fabricated," he declared. "There is no chance that Cole would ever have to plead with Meghan Markle for a date.
"Destroyed" By The Media
One of the greatest puzzles concerning the union of Meghan Markle and Prince Harry is the discussion of how much attention they truly enjoy from the press. Recently, the Duchess of Sussex purportedly asserted that the British press was determined to ruin her name.
She expressed that the gossip magazines are attempting to ruin her character. But Lizzie Cundy, a television star, recollected that two years prior, Meghan had pleaded for publicity. It appears that circumstances have altered...
She's "Manipulating?"
It appears that those who used to be close acquaintances of Meghan Markle are attempting to create a view that she was a mistake to marry Prince Harry, with TV presenter Lizzie Cundy as one of those individuals.
At one of her performances, Cundy spoke about Markle, asserting that since becoming a part of the royal family, she had been exercising a controlling influence. Furthermore, Cundy commented that she had perceived a distinct alteration in Markle's character since she was elevated to a royal status.
More Money, More Problems
It is undeniable that those part of the royal family will always have something to eat. However, many have spoken out against the large amount of money Meghan and Harry have expended since their marriage.
The couple's economic worries have made their bond more difficult since Meghan is obligated to pay taxes as a US resident. This also means that a significant portion of Harry and Meghan's proceeds could be subject to US taxation.
She's Forcing Him To Open Up
Lots of people consider it was a mistake for Meghan to encourage Harry to disclose his long-term worries, which began a while back when they were still together. In a 2017 podcast, Harry spoke about the passing of his mother Diana.
The journalist Bryony Gordon reports that Meghan motivated her partner at the time to take part in the podcast about his mental health with her. In addition, Prince Harry stated that he has been dealing with deep-rooted pain since the passing of his mother more than two decades ago.
They Have "Disappointed" The Queen
One more factor that could cause Meghan to regret getting married is that their behavior is displeasing the Queen. As per journalist Richard Palmer, different people have stated that the Duke and Duchess of Sussex's recent chat about mental health is only a justification for their conduct.
There has been a worry for Harry and Meghan's psychological well-being, however, their demeanor has failed to impress the Queen and other members of the Royal Family, various informants have reported, as indicated by a tweet.
She Took Him Away for Christmas
A further warning sign in Harry and Meghan's relationship is her desire to remove him from his relatives during the festive period.
Meghan determined to have her partner and their son Archie accompany her to Vancouver Island, Canada, to spend some time with her mom, Doria Ragland. While the Queen outwardly seemed to be in agreement with the choice, it is said that she was truly "discouraged" by it.
Forced to Make Big Decisions
It's undeniable that tying the knot with Harry has caused Meghan Markle to make some major choices. Many of these choices were not something she was totally content with. Nonetheless, it appears that the most recent grand decision she took was one that was more fitting for her than anyone else.
The pair announced a proclamation via their official Instagram page, stating: "After extensive thought and discussion, we have decided to embark on a journey of change this year, in order to create a forward-thinking role within this organization.
She's Made Him Step Back
It became more and more evident in the announcement that Meghan and Harry were planning to take a big step. They proclaimed that they "want to step back from being 'important' members of the Royal Family and try to become financially self-reliant.
It appears that Harry and Meghan both agreed to the decision, though many people assume it took a lot of convincing from Meghan to get Harry to go through with it. In the end, the majority of their finances will still be provided by the Duchy of Cornwall.
Meghan's Taken Harry to America
It appears that Meghan and Harry may be leaving the United Kingdom and moving to a place that is closer to where Meghan grew up. This has caused some people to feel resentful, believing that Meghan is taking Harry away from his relatives to live in an area in North America.
Many think they could go live in Canada, while others ponder the possibility of transferring to Los Angeles in order to be nearer to her mom.
She Has "Hurt" the Royal Family
It appears that Meghan and Harry's marriage may not have been the wisest decision as the consequences of their actions have caused distress to other members of the monarchy. Many people in the family have expressed their feeling of being let down and emotionally wounded as a result of their choice to leave their prominent roles in the Royal family.
It is thought that the Queen is one of the most affected individuals of the situation. She even referred to it in her yearly Christmas address.
They Have Taken Archie Away
Many think that Meghan and Harry's choice to move baby Archie away from the royal family is a sign that perhaps they shouldn't have tied the knot with the monarchy in the first place.
The royal family wanted Archie to be a part of their lives all the time, however, that wish is not attainable. Specialists think the couple is eager to give Archie an ordinary upbringing, so there is a potential for him to endure an individuality struggle sometime in the future.
Legal Issues
Meghan Markle's struggle with the press is only becoming more troublesome recently. The Duchess of Sussex has recently taken courtroom action against the Mail on Sunday, accusing them of unlawfully revealing a confidential letter she sent to her dad, Thomas Markle.
If Meghan had not married Harry in the first place, she likely would not have this problem. By decreasing their participation in royal tasks, it may be harder for British gossip magazines to intrude in their personal lives.
Awkward Family Reunions
If there is a valid argument against Meghan becoming tied to Harry through marriage, it is the uncomfortable meetings she will likely have with the royal family in the future.
According to The Daily Mail, the Duchess of Sussex is suspected to be somewhat intimidated about going back to the UK and getting ready to formally quit their senior royal obligations. As per expert Katie Nicholl, Meghan is experiencing "sorrow" and attempting to "put on a strong front.
The Queen's Putting Her Foot Down
Meghan and Harry have determined to distance themselves from much of their obligations as royals, and it seems the Queen is taking a firm stance on some of the benefits they had previously.
ABC's royal journalist Omid Scoobie shared information that Queen Elizabeth II spoke with the couple, telling them that she would stop paying for their safety, which is believed to cost about $25 million.
She Has Been Divorced Before
Potentially the greatest warning sign that Meghan Markle ought not to have tied the knot with Prince Harry was the reality that she had recently ended a brief first marriage. The Duchess of Sussex was previously wed to Trevor Engelson.
In 2004, Meghan and Trevor encountered each other, and in a short time, they were sharing a home. After seven years, they decided to get married in 2011. Unfortunately, their marriage lasted for only one and a half years, and in 2013, they officially separated.
Did She Marry Someone Too Famous?
Meghan might have profited from understanding the dynamics between Prince Harry and his past unsuccessful romances. In the end, Cressida Bonas broke up with Harry because "she was not able to accept the public inspection and being judged by people she had never met.
Chelsy Davy stated to The Times that when she was with Harry, she was overwhelmed with excessive and intimidating attention that made her feel uneasy. Even Meghan Markle, who had a fair amount of fame, may have tied the knot with someone too well-known for her own good.